Dear Diary, i feel discouraged

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Discouraged


This writeup isn't a diary, don't take this the wrong way but i am really facing shit as i type this short article right now. Is this even suppose to be an article. Let us just leave this as a short write up i am writing to make myself feel better and also encourage my folks out there who are feeling as discouraged as I am. It seems ironic on how someone who needs encouragement wants to encourage those who are discouraged on the same reason she is discouraged herself (You get it right?). It's strange but not impossible. I just feel we should encourage ourselves at this point.

Do you know that feeling when you are yearning to get a result from your hard work but find nothing? That's the kind of feeling i am having right now. It's almost like you're staring at a chicken egg waiting for the egg to hatch. The issue with me is that i am not patient enough. I am kind of patient at some aspects but when it comes to seeing results from my hard work, well i easily get discouraged which i tell you is very bad. You shouldn't be impatient or put all your focus on one thing.

A remedy to this is that, i have to stop putting all my focus on one thing. Perhaps if i let the egg be and go about doing other things of my interest, i won't realize how much time has gone by. Who knows?! The egg will just hatch one day when i least expect. This is same with my end goals. This is same with the result of my hard work. Sitting down here and just looking at my SEO expecting it to sky rocket is ain't going to happen overnight. Some of you will be like, why don't you use google ads? Why don't you get experts to do it for you? Well, friend it isn't free and i don't have the cash now so i have to be patient. I have other areas of interest too. Things kind of go slowly when it comes to being successful or seeing positive results. You will see positive results but not fast. This is why patience and perseverance is very important. 

Folks, do not give up because you aren't seeing results or because you feel you are stagnant and getting no where. There is something my brother told me today which really inspired me a lot and made me think of something. 

It isn't those who saw you start that will take you to the top. It takes thousands of trees to make a forest which means, not everyone that will make you grow will be within your peer group or close buddies. A stranger could see your work and boom, you are able to see the outcome of your hard work. You are able to change people's lives. Those around you might underestimate you and see you as nothing but complete stranger who have no idea who you are could see your potentials and bring the best out of you. 

It's kind of sad when some people lives gets ruined by those they think are going to be helpful to them but turns to be the strangers they ignore who help them at end. 

This is just a short write up. I was feeling really sober today so i decided to write this one down in case there is any other person  feeling as discouraged and stagnant as i feel. 

Thanks fot reading this short write up. Follow my page and come back tomorrow for another writeup. Share with friends to. *Throws away her tears soaked tissue into the toilet" 

"All will be fine" 


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