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If there is anything people have to know, it is to stop comparing themselves with others or perhaps comparing others. Too bad some people just don't understand this because at a point in life you're still going to find that person who wonders why you do things a certain and compare you with his/her so called Mr Perfect who perhaps does it better. Two humans being aren't the same and we have learn how to appreciate that. Some people might not understand or assimilate things faster than others but that doesn't mean they are not better in other areas.  Let's just imagine John as one who isn't good at Maths and Economics but is very good at biology class and debates. One of his mates ends up making fun of him for being a weakling in calculations. This mate must have perhaps done this because he felt he was better but the truth is how well can he compete with John in a debate competition or what grades does he acquire in a Biology Practical Class? People will always,...

 When one advises you to be yourself , it might be easy for you or most people but to me it’s kinda difficult. Most thought that run through my mind when I try to is “What if they don’t like who I am?” “What if they hate the real me?” “What if I say this and everyone criticizes me or everyone ignores me like I am a piece of garbage?”  Well if there is one thing I have learnt from this life, it’s that no body has the time to start studying you or filtering all your words. Everyone has their own life to live and problems to think about. It’s normal to be self conscious. I am  sooo self conscious. I tend to filter off a lot about me which ends up me showing just 3% of myself to people and the remaining 97% to my family and myself when I am alone. This can be really disturbing and it could give you this thought that no one likes you or you’re just not deserved by anyone.  The truth of this matter is, people like you no matter who you are and if they care they will try to...

 It is no news how difficult it is to give someone a second chance after they’ve hurt us so bad to the extent hearing just a word from their lips seems threatening to us. We have grown to hate them and lose interest in them. We have lost that trust that we felt for them in the past because we’re scared they will hurt us again.  It’s normal to lose faith in someone and move on with our lives forgetting we ever met them. There is one thing I have learnt about trust and if I am to share now, it is basically that trust is as fragile as a ceramic and if not handle will care can get shattered and never reformed to its initial state. It’s one to thing to hurt one and it’s another to lose trust in someone. Sometimes when someone hurt us we lose trust in them because the thought of “Why did you even do this?!” keeps troubling our mind.  No one wants to be hurt twice. No normal human being would want to. This is why when a relationship breaks due to lack of trust, when such couples...

CYBER SECURITY IN NIGERIA IS IT RAMPERT IN OUR ECONOMY IN THIS MODERN TIME? It’s no news on the alarming increase of cybercrime rate in the web this few years. In the past, various measures have been taken to reduce the rate at which scammer, fraudsters and hackers exploit the web page and thankfully, as technology develop day by day and it has gotten more helpful. Advanced techniques have been taken in securing the global web. This doesn’t entirely depend on the developers alone but on website users too. It’s really delightful to realize people in this modern world have knowledge on how to protect their devices and themselves from the internet breaches without having to depend on other people to do it for them. However, what’s cyber security in Nigeria and what are the steps taken in controlling it? It’s no news on the increase in cybercrimes in Nigeria and it seems to be growing drastically every day starting from viruses to experienced hackers and fraudsters. Nigeria howeve...

Here I am again! Ready to help ye all in every way I can. Here is a story from Linda. She talks about her experience as a child and how she was almost considered weak due to the way she developed. * Well, as a child I use to be private. Right now I am private. I am still a private, concious person but when it comes to helping people, I share few things to help others out. According to what I have learnt, it's best to let others learn about your experience because you might not know who is facing a worse situation than you. Some people out there needs motivation and support from people like them or people who has faced situations close to what they have. That's why I am posting this few things. To begin with, when growing up I used to be really gentle. I didn't talk much. I was so obedient. I didn't disobey anyone or bully anyone. I was trained well by my parents. I was like a good child to them but I wasn't all that smart for my age maybe that was how I devel...

Hello guys! Hope you were able to check out my previous post on what loneliness mean and how to get out of it. Now we are going to discuss on reasons why we are lonely at times. There are several reasons one tends to fall into this terrible mental state. 1) I JUST WANT TO BE ALONE: This is a type of loneliness we choose ourselves. Sometimes we might just be getting over a breakup or we might just be sulking over something and at times it could be to think. This is certainly common. 2) I HAVE NO FRIENDS Loneliness comes in when there are no friends. If you have no friend to support you or tell you hi or at least share your dreams with you then, you could actually be lonely. This can be the worst feeling especially when it comes to bringing down self esteem. Some people just don't like socializing with others or even talking to them and this could be a reason for this. A solution to this is to try to socialize with people. Talk to one who sits beside you in class or one who tend...

Do you know the worst feelings one could ever have in ones lifetime? My dear, it's being lonely. If you've got no one to talk to other than to sit on your bed all day and stare at your screen or TV, you're definitely lonely. Loneliness can really have effect on the health in terms of thinking, mental stress and positivity. When we're lonely we feel the world has just not decided to pay attention to us. It's more like, we are all alone by ourselves and we have no one. The truth is, every human being is entitled to his or her own decisions and well being. Being lonely is a normal thing at times, but it's best to avoid being lonely and try to socialize with people. Socializing with people gives birth to new ideas and new view of things. 50 percent of lonely people who stepped out of their comfort zone to socialize tended to feel good about it and got reluctant to fall back to their old habit. Being social active makes you live longer and look younger due to the fee...

Hello Everyone. We do know at times, we might tend to think about ourselves before even considering others. Most people even accept the quote that says "Think of yourself first and after you've made it, think of others". It's not wrong to think about yourself but all this is right to a certain extent. Some people see selfishness as a character which they have no intention of changing while some people tend to feel selfish when they've thought the situation over and realized they have no other choice. Selfishness might be good to some extent but it isn't a natural phenomenon. Being selfish is something we cultivate in us. It's something we can change if we want to. It could be used in good ways in order to help others indirectly or plan ahead. Unfortunately, some people tend to use it only for their own interest without putting anyone in mind. For example, you might have your budget for the month which you plan to use for your family.  Your friend in need o...

When you like someone actually, you tend to feel nice about the person personality, talent or something that just feel unique about the person. Though there will be no string attached to make it look romantic. You get closer to the person because of various reasons. Either to learn a thing or two from the person, or to just feel that good feeling the person gives anytime the person is around you or to just have a friend. When you like someone, you have trust in the person but not total trust though. You could help the person with anything and even share some of your secrets with the person, dating advise for example. But when you love someone, things occur way deeper than that. You aren't with the person because you love a particular thing about the person or the person reminds you of someone, you're with the person because you feel a string attached to that person. You feel a sense of compatibility and you feel being around that person makes you feel complete or makes you feel...

Time can be really trickish. At a point you'll feel you're in a situation then before you wink you're in another. Sometimes some people just don't know the essence of others saying how relevance time can really be. Some don't realize how much time goes by. The way you plan your time determines how much dreams you'll get fufilled and how much progress you will make. Well...you will wondering why I am bringing this up now. Actually I was scrolling through my previous blogs. The one I had opened four to five years ago. Reading its content and how much I wrote about my future goals, plans, my dreams, it was so touching because to be frank looking at myself now, I haven't made half of those achievement. I wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry. I was just 14 and I said it there on my blog. "Heyyo! I am just 14 so don't mind my short description. I just know one day I will be a successful writer, animator..." And all those stuffs like that. Now I a...

"O! God! I am done with high school, I am done with college...what next? I don't know what I can do or if to learn a skill or search for a job..." This is actually the cry of devastation some people get when they finish their courses in college and still end up discovering they haven't figured out their path yet. The best time however to figure out your path is high school (to me though, don't know about you). High school is the time teenagers mingle around among themselves and try to learn new stuffs. Their curiousity for learning is high at this stage and they tend to try and know everything that interest them. So if you're still in high school it's not too late to discover yourself. Ask your mum what you loved doing as a kid, ask your teacher the course you're really good at, join social clubs and see the one that actually interest you, browse the internet for skills you could actually learn online. This can help discover how you can plan your life ...

Friends are really important in our lives especially in terms of killing boredom, helping us out of some tight situations and also giving us a shoulder to cry on when we're sad. True friends stay in touch with you for a very long time. Sometimes they tend to stay as part of your life all through your journey in this world even though you might both be in different locations. True friends can be relied on for anything especially in terms of advise or help but unfortunately, there are lots of fake friends everywhere. No one wants to help the other anymore because we feel we're hustling. If i am trying to get to a point here, it's that you can't always rely on friends for sensitive things because no one knows who to trust anymore or who is really ready to help us. It's high time we learn to be independent and tackle some situations without friends. I am not saying you shouldn't rely on friends, you're so free to do that but be careful with the type of friends y...

There are situations in life when everything is good and you're happy You feel all is fine and everything is in its perfect state but then when an unpleasant situation occurs to us that moment, we get hurt. Being hurt could be caused by two reasons. Either we got ourselves hurt unintentionally or we were actually cheated. Sometimes what causes most hurtful feeling is so much trust in people. If we trust the wrong person too much, we might end up being pained with the person being aware or not. So much trust and vulnerability to someone can actually be a chance in you getting hurt. I am actually not saying you shouldn't trust people, you should but do not give them the 99% trust because they will still get to hurt you one way or the other. Well, one experience I actually had was caring about someone intensely. I knew the person never cared about me but I actually thought gradually I will get the person to actually care about me but unfortunately I was stupid. That was wrong bec...

There are various ways to know if one is in love, though there are several signs which are deep rooted and aren’t all that obvious at first. Most of us feel love is when we see this crazy guy or lady and our heart starts pounding heart until it feels it has to jump out of our tiny throat. No! That precisely isn’t the love we’re referring to here. That could be infatuation or attraction. When we talk about love, we talk about an intense connection and this time not a feeling. Ways to find out you’re in love.  You’re feel completely comfortable and safe around the person  You always wish to make this person happy.   You’re completely yourself around the person. No hiding of bad habits or flaws  You’re argue with the person on things that contrast between you both and always end the argument on good terms (That’s very important. It isn’t enough with just arguing)  You have accepted the person for who the person is and never try to change the person’s character.  You...

WHY IT’S DIFFICULT FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO FIND ONE THEY LOVE OR ONE THEY DESERVE Sometimes, we truly want to have this Mr Right in our lives. We really want that guy that acts like us or suits our taste but to our disappointment, not everything we want is what we can get especially something that is beyond our control. Good people are known to have good hearts. They are soft hearted and are majorly sentimental most of the time. The hardest life to ever live is to live as a good person and remain that way. Many people will not understand why you’re being good or the purpose of you acting like a saint and not everyone else. They don’t find that pure heart in you geniune because their believe is most people do things to impress others (More like Egoism). If getting along with others can be really difficult as a good person, how about falling in love? Being good is amazing… but when it comes to love we might eventually fall in love with someone who is completely opposite our character. ...

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