How to know you're really in love (There are somethings you don't know about it)

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There are various ways to know if one is in love, though there are several signs which are deep
rooted and aren’t all that obvious at first. Most of us feel love is when we see this crazy guy or
lady and our heart starts pounding heart until it feels it has to jump out of our tiny throat. No!
That precisely isn’t the love we’re referring to here. That could be infatuation or attraction.
When we talk about love, we talk about an intense connection and this time not a feeling.
Ways to find out you’re in love.

  •  You’re feel completely comfortable and safe around the person
  •  You always wish to make this person happy. 
  •  You’re completely yourself around the person. No hiding of bad habits or flaws
  •  You’re argue with the person on things that contrast between you both and always end the argument on good terms (That’s very important. It isn’t enough with just arguing)
  •  You have accepted the person for who the person is and never try to change the person’s character.
  •  You’re open with the person and share your pain with this person due to so much intense trust.
  •  You share your dreams with the person and try as much as possible to support them in whatever dreams they’ve got even though it's the last dream on your mind. 
  •  You ignore the person’s flaws and focus on the person’s productivity and success instead.
  •  You are both best of friends too. 
  •  You both don’t mind acting childishly or playfully with each other. 
  •  You share your deepest secrets. One you haven’t told even your parents.
  •  You both trust each other intensely.
  •  No opposite sex around this person will stir up doubts due to trust.
  •  You don’t care about looks
  •  You ignore his farts (lol! That’s a joke but it’s true too)
  •  You don’t mind bringing back old memories of when you both first met for first time.
  •  You see a beautiful future with this person (You're so sure you will end up with this person no matter what)
  •  You don’t see the person changing anytime soonest because you already know what the person is capable of. Even if the person changes, you’re still accept because you understand the condition causing the change. (Though the change shouldn't be something abusive)
  •  You don’t raise your voice or raise you arm on your partner and if you do accidentally or unintentionally, you apologize. (No Ego or Pride. You just want peace)
  •  Most importantly, most of the above attributes might not be present in the relationship but it matters more if you try to just make things work. (If you see yourself relenting, then the person wasn't meant to be with you in the first place)Signs of being in love are countless. There are most of them that are intense which might not be easy to write down or describe but as long as we know, love is a beautiful thing with the right person. Never jump into a relationship because you feel he is the one. He has to be the one to you.
  • from pexel.com


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