SHOULD I RELY ON FRIENDS?

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Friends are really important in our lives especially in terms of killing boredom, helping us out of some tight situations and also giving us a shoulder to cry on when we're sad. True friends stay in touch with you for a very long time. Sometimes they tend to stay as part of your life all through your journey in this world even though you might both be in different locations. True friends can be relied on for anything especially in terms of advise or help but unfortunately, there are lots of fake friends everywhere. No one wants to help the other anymore because we feel we're hustling. If i am trying to get to a point here, it's that you can't always rely on friends for sensitive things because no one knows who to trust anymore or who is really ready to help us. It's high time we learn to be independent and tackle some situations without friends. I am not saying you shouldn't rely on friends, you're so free to do that but be careful with the type of friends you rely on. Some are just not ready to help while some will feel that is an advantage to take something in return or add fuel to the fire. There are other people you could ask help from especially professional bodies. If you're depressed or facing a situation, you could see a psycologist or a counselor but if you feel it's something personal and you can't handle the situation yourself, you could actually tell someone you trust. Friends are important but be careful of the type of friends you keep because you might think you have true friends and then discover they are nowhere to seen in time of help.
Hope this article was helpful.
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