WHY IT'S DIFFICULT FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO FIND ONE THEY DESERVE

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WHY IT’S DIFFICULT FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO FIND ONE THEY LOVE OR ONE THEY DESERVE

Sometimes, we truly want to have this Mr Right in our lives. We really want that guy that acts like us or suits our taste but to our disappointment, not everything we want is what we can
get especially something that is beyond our control. Good people are known to have good hearts. They are soft hearted and are majorly sentimental most of the time. The hardest life to ever live is to live as a good person and remain
that way. Many people will not understand why you’re being good or the purpose of you acting like a saint and not everyone else. They don’t find that pure heart in you geniune because
their believe is most people do things to impress others (More like Egoism). If getting along with others can be really difficult as a good person, how about falling in love? Being good is
amazing… but when it comes to love we might eventually fall in love with
someone who is completely opposite our character. We might end up falling in love with someone we least expect or at times we might find that perfect guy who ends up not feeling the same way. The path to love can be really difficult and bumpy but patience is the key to all obstacles. For a good person to find love, such person have to be patient and avoid jumping into decisions and relationships randomly. You could be lucky enough to see someone you can actually tolerate and you could be unfortunate enough to see someone you can’t even stand two minutes with.
Everything is all about time and patience. It’s difficult for us to get the person we love because:

  1.  The person we love doesn’t love us back the same way
  2.  The person we love doesn’t see our goodness as a big deal or see you as someone who could change character at anytime
  3.  The person you love doesn’t see you both compatible because your character contrasts
  4.  The person we love might love you but is interested in someone else or is intimidated by your character and doesn’t want to pull out of his/her ways
  5.  The person we love is just a great peespe like us, doing the same good deeds like we do but isn’t actually meant for you.

There are tons of reason why the partner we cherish doesn’t love us back but it’s no time to give
up on anyone now nor is it time to waste our time on anyone either. If you see no chance into
getting into that person’s life, I think it’s best to just move on but if you feel there is still a ring of
hope in getting that person, hi! Fella! Do all you can to make that person happy and try as much as
possible to ensure the guy or lady finds you worth loving. If we find one we love, we’re happy,
we smile around the person and we love being around the person (Signs of whether it's love we feel comes later) but not everything happens that
quickly. At times you might not even notice how you feel until some incident happens between
you both and then you realize it’s been there all along. (too busy to notice).


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