AdviseJuliet

Hello all. It is really of great delight to have you all in my blog. In the past, I treated topics that dealt with emotions, depression, frustration but then it never occurred in my mind to bring up the topic on suicide.  According to Research, one person dies of suicide every 40 seconds. The most reason for suicide however is caused by emotional imbalance or poor mental state. Human beings are not hundred percent normal by nature. It is very easy to be lured into such an act even when you fight against it. The thoughts of all hopes being gone, the thoughts of guilt, the thoughts of environmental or physical factors can lure you to take this step.  Most people who commit suicide (according to my opinion) often have the thought of ending whatever pain they inflict in someone. It could be in themselves or some other people close to them. According to their mental state at that moment, suicide is the solution to what is going on with them mentally. Let's be realistic here, it is ...

 Have you ever felt a kind of deep connection with someone who turns out to impress and amuse you more than your other partners? Have you ever felt amused by someone's character that you just wish to know more about them even if you haven't known them for so long? Have you ever felt you have known someone for a long time even though you haven't? Deep connections comes with compatibility, understanding and common goals between you and your partner. I mean we must have met other partners we  fell in love with but never felt any strong bond or connection with them. It's very possible. We always find some fault in them. It's almost like we never even understood them. We keep getting distracted by their bad side that we never realized their good. But when we meet someone who understands us or does things similar to us, we tend to be amused and curious by this. This conditions our heart and feeling to know more about this person and a deep connection sets in.  When you ha...

 In one of my previous posts, I wrote an article on hidden signs which you may not be aware of that shows you are really emotionally drained. The signs were supposed to be focused on the common ways we feel everyday or in every occasion which we think is normal but it isn't. The post did very well to my delight. Knowing the reasons why you are emotionally drained in the first place is very important because to be frank some of the reasons aren't something we have control over. Some could be due to a childhood trauma, another could be due to the type of people we hang out with.  Here are common surprising reasons why you could be emotionally traumatized. 1) YOU HAD A REALLY TRAUMATIZING CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCE: Any experience that alters the normal childhood experiences especially if negative could be traumatizing. We have no control over how we were raised or who raised us. We have no control over our experiences. We get to realize the mistakes we have made or realize what we cou...

 We all had dreams one time as children. I mean we still do but it's more common for young tiny feet to dream of being almost anything even if it might turn out to be impossible (Like me dreaming one time I was 6 years old of being a princess in England when I grow up. Well this idea came up after watching Cinderella and I assure you that if the prince comes right now to ask for my hand, I will definitely turn him down. I am not in anyway interested in any royal life as an adult). Children have amazing imaginations and are really creative in their thinking. This surely is what makes them fast thinkers and also serious dream chasers. I mean, they do everything they can to achieve their dreams at a young age even if it involved making a fake crown and pretending to be the princess of the household. (Do not look at me like that). As we grow up, we become more mature. We learn more about life and realize that there are some certain expectations we expected as young kids we can never ac...

 Emotional Trauma has never been a pleasant thing to occur to anyone at all. Most of the time, this is often triggered by ones past experiences, some sort of abuse which affects one mentally or in other cases loneliness. At times, we might be passing through this traumatic phase but try as much as possible to pretend it doesn't matter to us or bother us. Ignoring how much your mental state bothers you only makes it worse and eventually gets you to break down if care isn't taken. This is why you should try a means to get your mind of adjust to whatever is going on in the present and completely accept whatever went on in the past and move on. Some individuals have no idea they are emotionally traumatized until they eventually break down and can't handle the unpleasant feeling they feel anymore.  Here are hidden signs you should check out for if you're trying to find out whether you're emotionally traumatized:  1) YOU'RE OFTEN CONFUSED ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIF...

 Infatuation is something that's really common these days. I mean people tend to fall in love more often with what they see first before considering what is in the inside. Love at first sight is way too common these days and to be precise,I don't believe in such crap. Sorry. Love should be a kind of seed planted deep in your heart and then nurtured by the personality you love in your partner or what she does to make you feel less of a garbage and more like yourself. Seeing the person every single time doesn't make you bored because deep inside your heart you know this lady or guy is worth it. The seed of love in your heart grows every single day each time you get to know the person more and more and learn how to accept both the person's good side and bad side.  Here are ways to find out the heart is involved in what you feel: 1)  YOU BOTH NATURALLY UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER: It might seem unique but no voodoo magic can ever explain how much two lovers can understand each ot...

As human beings, we want a perfect life. We want everything to happen the way we want it, we don't tend to understand why things just can't go smoothly.  Life would be very very easy for us if things went really smoothly, in fact it would be so boring not to experience how difficult it can be challenging and we don't tend to have any experience to teach us or help us get emotionally stronger than we already are.  If a human being is given the opportunity to change whatever situation he is facing right now, there is a 99% chance if not 100 that the person would really love things to be easier than it already is.  Unfortunately such can't happen because everyone faces challenges every single time. Challenges they might not have planned for. This is the reason why we cannot judge anyone for what they are going through or what they tend to do because we aren't sure of what they are passing through every single moment of their lives.  We tend to judge people way too easi...