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REASONS WHY YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY TRAUMATIZED

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 In one of my previous posts, I wrote an article on hidden signs which you may not be aware of that shows you are really emotionally drained. The signs were supposed to be focused on the common ways we feel everyday or in every occasion which we think is normal but it isn't. The post did very well to my delight. Knowing the reasons why you are emotionally drained in the first place is very important because to be frank some of the reasons aren't something we have control over. Some could be due to a childhood trauma, another could be due to the type of people we hang out with.  Here are common surprising reasons why you could be emotionally traumatized. 1) YOU HAD A REALLY TRAUMATIZING CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCE: Any experience that alters the normal childhood experiences especially if negative could be traumatizing. We have no control over how we were raised or who raised us. We have no control over our experiences. We get to realize the mistakes we have made or realize what we cou...

HOW WE KILL OUR DREAMS AND BECOME STUCK.

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 We all had dreams one time as children. I mean we still do but it's more common for young tiny feet to dream of being almost anything even if it might turn out to be impossible (Like me dreaming one time I was 6 years old of being a princess in England when I grow up. Well this idea came up after watching Cinderella and I assure you that if the prince comes right now to ask for my hand, I will definitely turn him down. I am not in anyway interested in any royal life as an adult). Children have amazing imaginations and are really creative in their thinking. This surely is what makes them fast thinkers and also serious dream chasers. I mean, they do everything they can to achieve their dreams at a young age even if it involved making a fake crown and pretending to be the princess of the household. (Do not look at me like that). As we grow up, we become more mature. We learn more about life and realize that there are some certain expectations we expected as young kids we can never ac...