AdviseJuliet

If there is anything people have to know, it is to stop comparing themselves with others or perhaps comparing others. Too bad some people just don't understand this because at a point in life you're still going to find that person who wonders why you do things a certain and compare you with his/her so called Mr Perfect who perhaps does it better. Two humans being aren't the same and we have learn how to appreciate that. Some people might not understand or assimilate things faster than others but that doesn't mean they are not better in other areas.  Let's just imagine John as one who isn't good at Maths and Economics but is very good at biology class and debates. One of his mates ends up making fun of him for being a weakling in calculations. This mate must have perhaps done this because he felt he was better but the truth is how well can he compete with John in a debate competition or what grades does he acquire in a Biology Practical Class? People will always,...

 When one advises you to be yourself , it might be easy for you or most people but to me it’s kinda difficult. Most thought that run through my mind when I try to is “What if they don’t like who I am?” “What if they hate the real me?” “What if I say this and everyone criticizes me or everyone ignores me like I am a piece of garbage?”  Well if there is one thing I have learnt from this life, it’s that no body has the time to start studying you or filtering all your words. Everyone has their own life to live and problems to think about. It’s normal to be self conscious. I am  sooo self conscious. I tend to filter off a lot about me which ends up me showing just 3% of myself to people and the remaining 97% to my family and myself when I am alone. This can be really disturbing and it could give you this thought that no one likes you or you’re just not deserved by anyone.  The truth of this matter is, people like you no matter who you are and if they care they will try to...

 It is no news how difficult it is to give someone a second chance after they’ve hurt us so bad to the extent hearing just a word from their lips seems threatening to us. We have grown to hate them and lose interest in them. We have lost that trust that we felt for them in the past because we’re scared they will hurt us again.  It’s normal to lose faith in someone and move on with our lives forgetting we ever met them. There is one thing I have learnt about trust and if I am to share now, it is basically that trust is as fragile as a ceramic and if not handle will care can get shattered and never reformed to its initial state. It’s one to thing to hurt one and it’s another to lose trust in someone. Sometimes when someone hurt us we lose trust in them because the thought of “Why did you even do this?!” keeps troubling our mind.  No one wants to be hurt twice. No normal human being would want to. This is why when a relationship breaks due to lack of trust, when such couples...