Avoid Letting People Get into Your Head.

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If there is anything people have to know, it is to stop comparing themselves with others or perhaps comparing others. Too bad some people just don't understand this because at a point in life you're still going to find that person who wonders why you do things a certain and compare you with his/her so called Mr Perfect who perhaps does it better. Two humans being aren't the same and we have learn how to appreciate that. Some people might not understand or assimilate things faster than others but that doesn't mean they are not better in other areas. 

Let's just imagine John as one who isn't good at Maths and Economics but is very good at biology class and debates. One of his mates ends up making fun of him for being a weakling in calculations. This mate must have perhaps done this because he felt he was better but the truth is how well can he compete with John in a debate competition or what grades does he acquire in a Biology Practical Class?

People will always, I mean ALWAYS try to make you look down on yourself. They will try so hard to make you be who you're but too bad they don't know you've made plans for yourself and have reached greater heights than they have. Heights they can only imagine to get to. 

Why do I feel this? 

Recently someone had actually called me boring because i don't go to clubs, parties and all those social hangout. Too bad he had no idea everyone can't be the same and we have different stlyes of living. I know friends who loves parties and social hangouts but that shouldn't affect who I really am unless I wish to try something new for a change. 

Take a deep breath, make plans for your future and block off all negative thought. YOU ARE YOU AND YOU KNOW YOU!



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