REASONS WHY NO ONE CAN BE PERFECTLY NORMAL

As human beings, we want a perfect life. We want everything to happen the way we want it, we don't tend to understand why things just can't go smoothly. 

Life would be very very easy for us if things went really smoothly, in fact it would be so boring not to experience how difficult it can be challenging and we don't tend to have any experience to teach us or help us get emotionally stronger than we already are. 

If a human being is given the opportunity to change whatever situation he is facing right now, there is a 99% chance if not 100 that the person would really love things to be easier than it already is. 

Unfortunately such can't happen because everyone faces challenges every single time. Challenges they might not have planned for. This is the reason why we cannot judge anyone for what they are going through or what they tend to do because we aren't sure of what they are passing through every single moment of their lives. 

We tend to judge people way too easily by their cover. If we see a lady smiling broadly or dressing nicely or doing things with so much agile, we end up believing that the lady is having a perfect life. We end up with the conclusion that the lady is happy. What we don't know is what the lady passes through in her own personal life? What she goes through with her relationships or what she faces when alone in her room thinking about her life? We cannot completely know ones mental state. No one can ever know what we are going through unless we tell them. This is why jumping into conclusion so fast about ones mental state is completely wrong. 

There could be scenerio where a man is out partying with friends, doing all the activities a social man would do in order to try and remove his mind off his challenges and try to stay on the positive side. But arriving home everything tends to change because he could arrive home to his nagging wife who pisses the hell off him, or back to his belittling boss who never appreciates his efforts or back to his girlfriend who he doubts cheats on him but isn't sure how to confront her. 

I have faced emotional traumas a lot and I know how it feels to be judged from the outside but not being understood from the inside. I know how it feels to be all alone with your problems and not being able to get out of the situation you are in because you don't know who to share it with or no one cares about what you are facing due to their own problems they have to tackle themselves. Lots of conditions can cause an emotional trauma. We will be looking at that soon.

In conclusion to this just know that human beings can't be in their hundred percent perfect state due to somethings which tends to always trigger their emotions from time to time either negatively or positively.  The best thing we can do to help each other is encourage each other and try to make each other feel so much better and avoid judging or belittling anyone. Keep this in mind that not everyone is happy as you are or is facing the good situation you are facing right now. Encourage them to stay positive if you can and ask them how they are doing emotionally if you really want to help out.

 Changing our pattern of not judging people by just their look will help a long way in battling emotional disorders and traumas that most people face today.

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