THE FEELING OF DEEP CONNECTION IN LOVE

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 Have you ever felt a kind of deep connection with someone who turns out to impress and amuse you more than your other partners? Have you ever felt amused by someone's character that you just wish to know more about them even if you haven't known them for so long? Have you ever felt you have known someone for a long time even though you haven't? Deep connections comes with compatibility, understanding and common goals between you and your partner. I mean we must have met other partners we  fell in love with but never felt any strong bond or connection with them. It's very possible. We always find some fault in them. It's almost like we never even understood them. We keep getting distracted by their bad side that we never realized their good. But when we meet someone who understands us or does things similar to us, we tend to be amused and curious by this. This conditions our heart and feeling to know more about this person and a deep connection sets in. 

When you have a deep connection with someone you are interested in, you feel very comfortable around them, you aren't afraid of being judge nor are you scared of being vulnerable to them, both of you can stay together for hours in silence and still turn out to be the best moment ever, you feel happy when you see them happy and feel terrible if they feel hurt in anyway. It's almost like your hearts are connected to each other. 

Most bloggers do say a connection can be one sided, it can be the most beautiful experience in the world but can not always lead to marriage, it can happen with more than one partner...I cannot completely agree with this statements because no one wants to get involve with a partner in which they share no bond with except it's an arranged relationship. There is a high tendency of your partner feeling the exact same connection you feel because both of you are compatible with each other. That's why it's a connection. It requires two ends to make one right? If your partner pays no attention to you or even sees you the same way you see them, then their connection might not be as deep as you thought or whatever you feel for them is not a connection but an attraction.

 You cannot feel this kind of connection with more than more person (According to me though) because everyone is different and you can't just to forming a natural bond with any guy you think understands you. The connection comes naturally with one who treats you well and makes you feel good about yourself. Not every guy will do that. Even if another guy does that, is your heart really that available to let any guy in without knowing who you want and who you feel most comfortable with? This connection forms naturally and with only one person at a time and not two at the same time. If you're lucky, you both could try to work things out or if it turns out one partner isn't ready for something serious, then you either  have faith and keep praying or just move on. I somewhat agree with the fact that life is not a fairy tale so there is no guarantee you will end up with someone you feel a connection with. Just learn to enjoy what you feel and never give up on trying things out. You both might eventually work out fine. Who knows. 

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