I WON'T LET IT END THAT WAY....1
Here I am again! Ready to help ye all in every way I can.
Here is a story from Linda. She talks about her experience as a child and how she was almost considered weak due to the way she developed.
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Well, as a child I use to be private. Right now I am private. I am still a private, concious person but when it comes to helping people, I share few things to help others out. According to what I have learnt, it's best to let others learn about your experience because you might not know who is facing a worse situation than you. Some people out there needs motivation and support from people like them or people who has faced situations close to what they have. That's why I am posting this few things.
To begin with, when growing up I used to be really gentle. I didn't talk much. I was so obedient. I didn't disobey anyone or bully anyone. I was trained well by my parents. I was like a good child to them but I wasn't all that smart for my age maybe that was how I developed. As I grew older being that great daughter of my parents, I wasn't really entirely happy because I was always looked down on by some people close to me. Most the time, I was called dull, called foolish, called a goat, called idiot...called all sort of names because I was trying to be what my family wanted me to be. I didn't do things on my own. I relied on my family instructions for mostly everything in my life. I never trusted in my decisions because whenever I wanted to make a decision, they are either not considered or ignored. This is all I get from being a great friend, a great child while I was actually being traumatized by insults, low self esteem, shame, lack of confidence. This didn't reduce until after high school when I decided to step out of my shell and just be someone different. I wanted to just be who I was and who I was is totally not close to what my parents wanted me to be. I was someone who loved being free, who believed in equality and who loved others to be given the chance to be better. I hated anyone being judged for who they are especially if it wasn't their fault. If someone is facing a situation or challenge, instead of insulting or ruining the person, just help. I was strong enough to surpass this with my head up high. I was strong enough to be myself and act smart. I was strong enough to avoid impressing people. If it were some other person, the person might actually be manipulated or be depressed. The person might not be strong enough to withstand all this. Your family might be the reason for your downfall unknowingly. They might think they are helping you but you are the one that knows what you're facing inside. Speak out if you're I'll treated unjustingly. Just be yourself and make a change. Stop being unhappy for anybody.
Thanks for reading
Here is a story from Linda. She talks about her experience as a child and how she was almost considered weak due to the way she developed.
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Well, as a child I use to be private. Right now I am private. I am still a private, concious person but when it comes to helping people, I share few things to help others out. According to what I have learnt, it's best to let others learn about your experience because you might not know who is facing a worse situation than you. Some people out there needs motivation and support from people like them or people who has faced situations close to what they have. That's why I am posting this few things.
To begin with, when growing up I used to be really gentle. I didn't talk much. I was so obedient. I didn't disobey anyone or bully anyone. I was trained well by my parents. I was like a good child to them but I wasn't all that smart for my age maybe that was how I developed. As I grew older being that great daughter of my parents, I wasn't really entirely happy because I was always looked down on by some people close to me. Most the time, I was called dull, called foolish, called a goat, called idiot...called all sort of names because I was trying to be what my family wanted me to be. I didn't do things on my own. I relied on my family instructions for mostly everything in my life. I never trusted in my decisions because whenever I wanted to make a decision, they are either not considered or ignored. This is all I get from being a great friend, a great child while I was actually being traumatized by insults, low self esteem, shame, lack of confidence. This didn't reduce until after high school when I decided to step out of my shell and just be someone different. I wanted to just be who I was and who I was is totally not close to what my parents wanted me to be. I was someone who loved being free, who believed in equality and who loved others to be given the chance to be better. I hated anyone being judged for who they are especially if it wasn't their fault. If someone is facing a situation or challenge, instead of insulting or ruining the person, just help. I was strong enough to surpass this with my head up high. I was strong enough to be myself and act smart. I was strong enough to avoid impressing people. If it were some other person, the person might actually be manipulated or be depressed. The person might not be strong enough to withstand all this. Your family might be the reason for your downfall unknowingly. They might think they are helping you but you are the one that knows what you're facing inside. Speak out if you're I'll treated unjustingly. Just be yourself and make a change. Stop being unhappy for anybody.
Thanks for reading
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