Why people get themselves hurt

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There are situations in life when everything is good and you're happy You feel all is fine and everything is in its perfect state but then when an unpleasant situation occurs to us that moment, we get hurt. Being hurt could be caused by two reasons. Either we got ourselves hurt unintentionally or we were actually cheated.
Sometimes what causes most hurtful feeling is so much trust in people. If we trust the wrong person too much, we might end up being pained with the person being aware or not. So much trust and vulnerability to someone can actually be a chance in you getting hurt. I am actually not saying you shouldn't trust people, you should but do not give them the 99% trust because they will still get to hurt you one way or the other. Well, one experience I actually had was caring about someone intensely. I knew the person never cared about me but I actually thought gradually I will get the person to actually care about me but unfortunately I was stupid. That was wrong because I only ended up getting hurt. When you see a red sign or an alert of someone true feelings towards (especially the I don't care part), keep your distance. If the person is really close to you, you could ask the person why the person shows such cold heart toward you. They might have a valid reasonable reason however. But if no reasonable reason is given, well I guess it's high time you just cut off such a friend for the meantime. Such friend doesn't care about you now and might never care about you ever, even when you're in your peak of death.
There are still few people who will care about you though. Keep them close to your heart and try as much as possible not to lose them. You surely won't want to be lonely at all.
Comment below what terrible experience has ever gotten you deeply hurt, how you managed the situation and what you learnt from it.
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