HOW TO DISCOVER YOURSELF

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"O! God! I am done with high school, I am done with college...what next? I don't know what I can do or if to learn a skill or search for a job..." This is actually the cry of devastation some people get when they finish their courses in college and still end up discovering they haven't figured out their path yet. The best time however to figure out your path is high school (to me though, don't know about you). High school is the time teenagers mingle around among themselves and try to learn new stuffs. Their curiousity for learning is high at this stage and they tend to try and know everything that interest them. So if you're still in high school it's not too late to discover yourself. Ask your mum what you loved doing as a kid, ask your teacher the course you're really good at, join social clubs and see the one that actually interest you, browse the internet for skills you could actually learn online. This can help discover how you can plan your life as someone in high school. Now, I am not in high school. I am in college or I am done with college and still I don't know what I want to do. I don't know where my life is going. I don't like my job. It's too late for me to go back to high school...Who told you you should go back to high school to discover yourselfI? I know some people who didn't go to school but got successful through their skills and their talent. To be successful,you have to know exactly what you want to do. What was your dream as a child? Is that dream still alive in you? If it isn't, you could try learning new skills online. There are lots of online platforms that helps people in need of new skills like udemy.com, udacity.com, edx.com etc. You will find lots of amazing skills on this sites and start a business out of it. But if you already have a job and you still need an alternative, the internet is your friend. You can try laying your hands on new skills too and try investing your money on something amazing which investors will approve.
In summary though, everything relies on skills and talent so it's important you learn one.
Hope this was helpful. Comment below if you've faced a situation like this and how you got out of it. What helped you out? Skills, talent....or something else entirely?
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