When you like someone vs When you love someone

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When you like someone actually, you tend to feel nice about the person personality, talent or something that just feel unique about the person. Though there will be no string attached to make it look romantic. You get closer to the person because of various reasons. Either to learn a thing or two from the person, or to just feel that good feeling the person gives anytime the person is around you or to just have a friend. When you like someone, you have trust in the person but not total trust though. You could help the person with anything and even share some of your secrets with the person, dating advise for example. But when you love someone, things occur way deeper than that. You aren't with the person because you love a particular thing about the person or the person reminds you of someone, you're with the person because you feel a string attached to that person. You feel a sense of compatibility and you feel being around that person makes you feel complete or makes you feel more like yourself. You get romantic feeling around that person and your view toward that person will be different from the view you have for someone you like. For example, if the person you like slaps the person you love (just imagine how your reaction will be at that moment). At first you will be confused, then angry...if you're hot tempered you could begin scolding this lady you like or just cut ties with her for good without remembering she was the one you actually saw unique or you might angrily ask her what's wrong and why she did it and still end up not seeing her the same way for some few days. There is a difference between like and love . We can like twenty people in a day but we can only truly love one person.
I hope I was able to convince you on the differences between the two. Comment below what you think of it and. Do you think you love your present partner or just like them?


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