6 UNIQUE SIGNS YOUR LOVE IS FROM YOUR HEART AND NOT AN ATTRACTION

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 Infatuation is something that's really common these days. I mean people tend to fall in love more often with what they see first before considering what is in the inside. Love at first sight is way too common these days and to be precise,I don't believe in such crap. Sorry. Love should be a kind of seed planted deep in your heart and then nurtured by the personality you love in your partner or what she does to make you feel less of a garbage and more like yourself. Seeing the person every single time doesn't make you bored because deep inside your heart you know this lady or guy is worth it. The seed of love in your heart grows every single day each time you get to know the person more and more and learn how to accept both the person's good side and bad side. 

Here are ways to find out the heart is involved in what you feel:

1) YOU BOTH NATURALLY UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER: It might seem unique but no voodoo magic can ever explain how much two lovers can understand each other so well without knowing each other for too long. Just imagine being approached by someone who actually relates to so many things you relate to despite not even knowing who this person is. Just try to imagine the reaction of this person after being stuck for months or years with a partner who refuses to understand him or her or even try compromising a little. Won't it feel overwhelming? I know it is uncommon to find someone who perfectly understands you. In fact it might not be possible. But finding someone who tries to and takes his or her time to compromise and adjust to your beliefs a little just to make you happy to relate better with you is a really beautiful thing to get. 

2) YOU SEE BEYOND HIS/HER LOOKS: Have you ever thought of someone who helped you in the past and feel so much positive energy just thinking of how the person changed your situation at that particular moment? Do you ever forget someone or neglect someone that helped you in your bad days when you are stranded? Do you ever pay attention to the person look at that moment or dress color? Well it seems to be more easier to forget someone who barely did anything for you that changed your life than to forget someone who has really helped you a lot when you were down. This can be related to love. You tend to focus on the personality of your partner and how much he has helped you positively develop yourself than just his facial looks. His traits fascinated you so much that even if he gets involved in an accident and loses his face completely, his jokes and passionate traits still keeps the love you have for him stronger than ever. Though he might have some negative sides which you may not like at all but as a human being yourself, you should learn to accept that every human being has both a positive and negative side naturally. So, perhaps you should just learn to compromise. 

3) YOU COMPROMISE: Human beings are naturally selfish and have not even a slightest intention of helping those they don't feel like. If they have made up their mind not to help you, nothing can ever change their mind except they want to. But when it comes to love, you tend to go out of your way to help this person and sacrifice some important things to you just to make the other happy. It just occurs naturally and you don't tend to think too much before doing it. Though you will need to be smart about it too because, it might not be smart to give too much to someone who doesn't appreciate your help at all. 

4) SOMETHING ALWAYS DRAWS YOU BOTH TOGETHER: No matter how often you both argue or stay away from each other and give each other a silent treatment, something always tends to bring you both together. It could be that you lost contact of him or you had an argument with him and decided never to speak to him again, a situation still occurs which tends to bring you both together at a point. It is almost like no matters how hard you try to draw away from this person, you just can't because staying away is almost like impossible. 

5) YOU NATURALLY FEEL SECURE AND POSITIVE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP: When there is a mutual understanding in your relationship, you tend to have faith in your relationship and never tend to doubt your partner a bit. You give him or her space when you know it's necessary and know where the relationship is going. You can foresee the future of the relationship with this person. If perhaps he haven't proposed to you yet, you might not be 100% sure if he will but you tend to have high hopes that he would soon when he is really really ready for it. 

6) YOUR PARTNER IS DIFFERENT FROM YOUR PREVIOUS IN MANY WAYS: 

No matter what, if you're connected with this person by heart or really in love with your present person, your present relationship will definitely surprise you and make you positive on how different this present person treats you than the previous. It ends up making wonder where this person has been for so long and why you kept getting stuck with the wrong people in the past. 







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